Friday, August 31, 2007

Homeless In Jax: Unsheltered Not Knowing What's Afforded Them To Eat

She was in her 50's or 60's, sitting with three bags around her feet and one on her left on the wooden bench. Noting her conversing alone, I smiled as I passed her and moved to a leaning position against a lightpole to her right.

It was later in the day than usual for me being downtown to transfer busses. With many city residents opting to vacate their work early to avoid traffic, the amount of congestion put the majority of transit lines behind schedule at least thirty minutes.

I noticed the woman beginning to eat a small snackcake from a wrapper she'd taken from one bag...a white frosted cake, it's outer layer smeared and melted the majority of the wrapper.

I let her enjoy the moment. Moments of enjoyment can sometimes seperate the other many moments not so enjoyable to the point of a person forgetting their environment even.

Tilting my head, I called to her while leaning forward without stepping to approach her...wanting to maintain eye contact, to understand through facial recognition I was welcome within her space to be nearer when speaking.

She acknowledged me politely, composed and personality shifted, putting her other self away while facing someone calling her "ma'am" in who knows how long. I asked her if she liked cheese 'Krystals'; a small burger known in the Southeast from the restaraunt of the same name. She lowered her chin to her chest and made a feigning face of disbelief of my question to her.
    "I LOVE cheese Krystals!", and she began smiling after a moment, breaking the mask she wore.
I told her it was cheaper to buy a set, and offered half of what I had gotten ealier at my prior stop's location. She thanked me and opened her new parcel to begin making sure she hadn't been had.

Much of what I learned over the next half hour is too long to go into detail here. The most depressing and sorrowful thing to me wasn't of this woman being homeless...it was her lack of knoweldge of what was available to her to honestly survive.

While she used floor space at different locations, she related eating only during breakfast periods when it was time to leave the places she sought refuge in the night. She didn't understand why she could only at times have one pancake, but understood the need for children to go ahead of her.

I told her where she could go and eat at night. She was honestly surprised it seemed. From her speech and ability to converse, she was able to stay on task if directed but could have been very well unable to read.
    In this instance, who is responsible for someone not receiving what's available to them? The person who is thankful for what they are able to receive...or parts of the system to fail in delivery of service to their client base?

    Yes ladies and gentleman...this is business...or rather, business the way it should be run...not 'business as usual'.

    In closing, many people are aware that the head of the Jacksonville Emergency Services Homeless Coalition (ESHC) resigned last year. This year Jacksonille's largest shelter will also see it's CEO retire in October. I don't envy either of their positions these people are going to be walking in to.
      Their being watched by me.

    You are encouraged and invited to participate in Homeless In Jax. Anyone registering is able to immediately post their perspective and experience in helping make homelessness seen as an opportunity for improvement and celebration in Jacksonville, regardless if you have a home, if not, are a service provider, or simply see things that need to be done. We want to know what you think and feel. Please, visit and feel free to contribute.
    If you don't, don't expect Homeless In Jax to ever change!

    Thursday, August 30, 2007

    MyBlogLog Is Dredging Again

    This is like the second night in a row. Can't access my pages, stats, everything acting like dialup on a bad connection someone blames for line noise.

    It's NOT line noise! IT'S THOSE LITTLE BLUE MEN WHO DO SHOWS IN ORLANDO NOW! Their pissed at all the stuff you put in their hard drive thethey live in!

    Friday's Blog Review: The Life of Abdiel

    Weekly content writing I do over at Fuelmyblog. Entry up.

    Wednesday, August 29, 2007

    Pisstakers Noting Me

    The Pisstakers put out a MyBlog Sunday 21 including me. Just so happens I was traipsing around there.

    They did a good job scripting their new accordion toy...or maybe it's an old one. Comedy worth clicking. Don't piss around on this. Click the image.

    Speaking With PayU2Blog's Heath Gurley

    Most of the time when my cell phone rings when I'm commutting home from work from my 'day job' I expect my wife on the other end of the call. It's a ritual, masked in need for something from the store picked up, heads up on one of the kids before the kid gets to me without a heads up...information brokering in a marriage. She covers me, I cover her, and we both live happily ever after thinking about the Tropicana Las Vegas next year.

    The problem yesterday was she'd already spoke with me when my phone rang again. Looking at the caller ID I found an area code I was unfamiliar with.
      No, I don't have chicks in every area code. I'm not a $l#7, I just blog that way sometimes.
    Figuring it was one non profit or another wanting help in some project, I answered it and found it wasn't such.

    It was PayU2Blog. On my phone. On my bus. Well, not on the bus...you get the idea. It kind of surprised me. Heath was touching base with me after a problem arose with my address. Rather than send me an email, he chose to call me direct...not that he said that, but that's what he did.
      Heath... of PayU2Blog. On my phone. On my bus. Sorry...
    Anyways, we concluded the business he originally called about and without giving him a chance I hit him with two other situational situations.
      You get one of the 'guys' from any online company calling you, you make DANG good use of your time, kids.
    So, I asked him questions, he gave answers, I happy, he happy, and without realizing it I was the one that closed the call and thanked him for calling.
      No, I wasn't rude, but I just realized that's how assurred I was in giving him the time to talk to me. Dang...where's this coming from?
    The point? Well...that Heath called me with a problem, we found a solution, I threw up two more situations, he gave solutions, everyone happy. Wonder if he's got a sister.

    Over the last month I've had the chance of being involved with PayU2Blog through two 'payout cycles'. I've had no problems, and any that did come about I was able to figure out and fix on my own. Heath gave me inside information about some things going on
      No, I will NOT tell you...because I'm a trusted person...but know that Heath's impressed me enough that he's not 'all that' and 'corporate'. Well...maybe he wears more expensive shirts than I did when I was in IT...nevermind. He's cool.
    PayU2Blog.com. One of the few I recommend without getting paid to...and no, I'm not expecting anything else from Heath for doing that.
      Heath :wink wink:

    Suck this into your soul's needful empty glands

    An entry was made lately, linking back to me for reason the writer's mind took, for whatever caused it to react in it's unique chemical state some of us have become fortunate to touch upon.
      Those not knowing what this tastes like in the mouth when occurring, relax, take a cup of latte, and wonder at signals to come to your synapse one day.
    What for does a blogger blog for, if a blogger does not blog for the blogger blogging on the blog's blog?
      Yes, it's sensual, making sense of seemingly senseless sense of sense.
    Digress, I. Out of respect for the writer, I withheld commenting at the moment. Some of his commentors are still lacking in comprehending his magnificence, debating the wonders of light coming from his vessel's windows.

    If you enjoyed reading this post, save your money and don't consider buying me a beer. Accept my humblest apologies that my blog might have in providing value in it's content while I work on certain projects needing funding.
      I don't ask my friends for money. I choose to look Lucifer in the eye and tell him why he needs an ice cube.
    If you feel the need, hook up the web cam and say my name.

    It's the sweetest sound to a person's ears on this planet. Touch me.

    Is There A Doctor In The Blog?

    Years ago, there were 'the ones'. Nameless, faceless, untraceable ones. They knew what was to be said, knew what was to come, and took action before evil could manifest itself.

    That was a long time ago. Many of the ones grew up, losing the ability to know their one. Some didn't.

    It would be a few years later that one of them would resurface on his own, when the others slept or watched from afar. Sometimes chuckling at what was noted, but never being known further. Except him.

    He wasn't considered the strongest in any field, with many of them held by others who'd been in the game longer. But as time went by; and the high held ones stood down; he would without question, warning, or breach of the flow come forward to fill the need. In truth the high held ones own rank was their downfall, in not being able to hold it until the last breath. His strength would never be in one field of study, another in concept, or yet ones of logic. His strength was passion.

    Where each held to domination through gauntlet run against others, he followed behind in support of those leading. In every leader is a following, and in every leader there is an end. The true matter of what is real lies not in the leader, but in the following that believes in what the leader leads to.

    Not for himself, not for the leader, and not even for the followers for whatever the reason they'd tasked their existance to.

    He followed for continuity. What each other participant in this virtual cycle of life failed to understand the true power of was what he saw in his mind. Others visualizing linear two dimensional worlds of possibilities, while he saw potentials of things through all planes of space
      and those places to touch points not comprehended or contacted.
    For all paths there is a line. But in all lines there is a means to shorten the path upon that line which is the shortest between two points.

    The shortest path between two points is a straight line. The shortcut lies not in any turn from the path, but of turning the path's end points unto themselves and arriving at the conclusion of the journey with smiles to the weary travelers making their passages complete.

    Chances are this won't be understood, and if not to be then so be it. In our minds we sense we can effect change, but fall short of that while looking at the world before us in it's representation upon our senses. To change the world; any part, grain, or sand of it we stand upon; simply takes one muscle to be flexed in any person's body.

    The heart. To believe, to know, and to make change occur in the world only takes one heartbeat. The stronger the beat, the more impact the change.
      The weaker the beat of those that believe stronger can impact more than any legion of strong heartbeats of those that believe little.

    Tuesday, August 28, 2007

    Squat or Sit? Flushing Out Comments

    This is an international interaction. In the Etats-Unis, we have 'The John'. In France it's rumored they still have 'Squatting Rites'.

    We have our commode, while they; again rumored; have in some locations 'squatting toilets'; second cousin to Turkey's 'hole in the ground' facilities.

    Check out Wikipedia's 'Ode To Toilet' as well as 'You Stand So Close To Me' articles, then make a virtual choice!
    Sit or Squat?

    VS

    Choose carefully. The world watches you now!

    Getting From Shelter To Home: Don't Rest On Your Laurels

    One of the things I pick up on from a number of families that break out of the homeless system is the 'complacency syndrome'. They've just gotten through a major setback in life, and all too often don't concentrate further on planning. Most of the families I know personally 'getting out' put a lot of hard work and effort in getting a new home, even when at times being assisted by agencies.

    It's hard work, and not everyone's going to own their own home one day. It takes dedication, accountability, and planning skills that many people don't have. For those that do, don't think paying off the bills to the house, electric, and car will be enough.

    When you're gone, you'll be leaving your spouse or children with a pretty big bill. One that they probably don't want. Maybe they'll want to move on and out into their own home. A good plan when looking to the future for anyone going 'homeless to home' is to include learning about what a mortgage life insurance is, and the protection it affords.

    The only other thing as important as this for anyone getting a new start in life?

    Retain a family lawyer who can handle the times when the life insurance needs to be handled. It won't help you rest any easier than you will be, but it'll help your loved ones...and you know it.

    Payback's a [ZordZord]

    I just got my eyeglass Rx done yesterday at my doctor's office. I was able to get 'Transitions' lenses for around $80.00 added on. It was funny really...the girl said she had grey and smoke, and she offered to take them outside for me to see the difference.

    We waited a minute while once changed, but the other pair didn't. That's when she realized...the second pair were regular lenses.

    I think she got even with me for the video below.

    ...SHE PWNED MEH! lol

    Say Meh Name

    Now...sweetie. Sit on the right hand side nicely, and do what I tell you.

    Ok. I was out and about off work, nothing to do in a hot day, so I jumped into a shady office, sat down, and ad libbed.

    Maybe I shoulda told her to sing the "Libby's" song!

    Sunday, August 26, 2007

    30 Day Free Trial for BoxesOS

    I just found out there's an alternative for content management that many writers and bloggers I know and frequent could use, BoxesOS Content Management Component from EPAZZ.

    One of the most difficult barriers bloggers have when going 'Pro' and getting their own domain is having to choose a Content Management System (CMS). Most host sites offer Joomla and Mambo, but from personal experience it's nothing I could possibly recommend to any of my readers.
      I've had to concentrate too much off of content for the sake of site operations myself.
    Rather than reinvent the wheel or be held to just using a Pagepress platform, EPAZZ is giving people 30 day free trials to check out their service and see if they're the right package or not.

    Until I find out about BoxesOS, I was only familiar with the open source community offerings like Joomla, Mambo, and Drupal. All great and free, but you get what you pay for. Bloggers and content writers I know can't take the time to teach themselves the innerworkings and codings of new software platforms, especially when it involves crossing over into knowing PHP or SQL.

    Some of the key points that BoxesOS handles for the site owner in the background are pretty lengthy to go into here, and much more than whatever their accustomed to through 'Pagepress'.

    If you're serious about going to the next level, be serious enough to take a 30 day free ride. You'll be able to make a better decision after seeing firsthand what it can do.

    One off the streets, but don't rest on your laurels, folks

    Downtown there was always a little skinny woman with white hair. If she had anything on her feet, it was one or two socks about to fall off. Sometimes she'd be seen walking in circles, elaborating to those only she could see. Other times she'd be going off on people who'd interfered with her.

    I had the chance sometimes of holding out a cigarette, telling her to sit down, and talk to her. There were times I only got the attention afforded the time of the smoke, but other times I was able to get her to elaborate; in her own way; of what she was thinking at the time.

    Those in Jacksonville reading this may know who I'm talking about. If you do, I'm happy to say that she's off the streets. I'm not sure how, but the many people who spent time outreaching her were able to get her on appropriate medication as well as into a home.

    This woman was considered one of Jacksonville's top 100 most chronic homeless cases. I haven't had the chance to see her since, and honestly don't know if she'd remember me now as well.

    What I do know is she's safe. She won't be raped when trying to rest outside. She won't be killed for a pack of cigarettes in the middle of the night.

    She's off the streets.

    Giving: Grocery Store Gift Cards

    Constantly I get compliments, raves, and many questions about what would be appropriate for someone to give to a family that's homeless.
    The one I recommend constantly to people wanting to lend a hand to a family experiencing homelessness are Gift Cards from stores that are within walking distance to where homeless families are found.
      The one in particular is from Winn-Dixie, a local grocer used by other families like mine near the shelter we stayed at. They come in $10, $20, $25, $50 and $100 denominations.
    These are extremely ideal! When a person with kids gets one of these, their able to immediately make choices based on what they KNOW their child needs. While it's nice to provide a product to someone, not everyone needs the same thing. Sometimes perfumes from some diapers can have bad effects on children with allergies. By giving a gift card a person is giving some empowerment over another person's immediate problem.

    Food: you don't know about allergies the kids have. Toiletries: it's really too personal to make a decision for someone else when it comes to maxi pads, isn't it?

    Play it safe...for the recipient getting what they know they need, and you knowing your helping someone until they can help themselves.

    Is this meant as a message for people to go out in masses and drown the homeless parents out there with cards? No, but it's just a perspective people should realize if they make the decision to be directly involved with someone they don't know, in a very difficult period in their life possibly.

    Thanks for reading. If you have any questions about interacting or helping homeless families, I'd be happy to give you an honest perspective based on being there...and having gotten successfully out to help others there still.

    The Modern Choice in Displays


    Get your trade show display from Modern Day Displays and take your exhibit to the next level.
    They have the best selection of tabletops, pop-up displays, and trade show flooring available.

    They'll be the last place you get a trade show display from.

    Meme: Remake your friends' taglines

    Troy's evil. He sucked me into coauthoring Meme Carnival. Originally Carl started this business, Troy stole it, and he hit me first.
      Since I'm sucked into memery now, all of you who memed before and I DIDN'T do it...please...please...send me a message that I need to do it, ok? I've honestly had many things going on. My neighbor's cat died 10 times. It's been really tough.
    Protocol: Pick 5 blogs and give them (new) taglines. It’s not as easy as it sounds. Here's mine:Tag...you're it, folks!

    Carguygarage.com asking for my opinion

    Just got an opportunity to check out Carguygarage.com and give my opinion. By the URL, I first pictured a 'Man Show' image. Wiping away the scenes of jumping girls on trampolines, I checked them out.

    The first stop in our journey will be their storage cabinets. Check out that diamond plated job. Caught MY attention the second I hit the page. This model's easy to clean gunk off of, and has the plating on the back as well. A no rust finish means if I DO happen to get gunk on it, I can feel safe dousing it with whatever cleaner's available without it oxidizing.

    Scroll down and you'll spot one of their lift racks. Not too shabby. Nice brand graphic of an early model car. Go buy something from 'em and impress that girl next door when she needs help.

    This has been a sponsored post.

    The Hunt For Blog Fairy Is CLOSED

    Fran's ok. She's retired. Seems there's a new fairy in town
      ...don't go there, folks
    ...and she's been handed the reigns formally.
    At the moment Gracie is working to carry over and validate all those who've received their Blue Ribbon Blogger awards from Fran originally.

    If you were originally provided an award, contact Gracie through the above sites. There's also another mun that's been brought over into the Blog Fairy Community. Check it out.

    Site Review: Hypnosiscoach.com

    Look into my eyes. You're getting sleepy. Very sleepy. Not working? Figures. That being said it's time for me to get out and pick up some self education and learn hypnosis, boys and girls!

    Picked up on Hypnosiscoach.com a while ago and just now decided to check out if it's worthy to spend time with Dr. Masterman there.
      His name...invokes me to want to be like him...Master of man.
    His front page brings people in with offering them the chance to control conversations
      I...can do that!
    Aw...here's something I like. Seduction. Something I need to bone up on. I've had too long to rely on the same quivers in my stomach that everyone else does when meeting someone hot...this takes the edge off while giving me the edge I need.
      Edgy, huh?
    Ok, here's my down and dirty, real world without sugarcoating something to sell you explanation...and what Dr. Masterman and other Hypnotist Instructors will never tell you:
      These are the same skills that many of my own ancestors used centuries ago, going almost back to the time of Christ. What some call 'Word Magic', combined with Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP). Honestly, some people have these gifts through genetic selection as well as their home environment when growing up...sometimes a combination of both.

      On the other hand, many don't, won't, and will never know these skills. This is a chance to level the field for many.
    This is honestly one of the cheapest offerings I've seen for someone to pick up these skills. Granted, you could educate yourself on the internet, but for the amount of information you can get here in one place you'd save yourself about a decade of having to sort out garbage from fact.

    All in all, Hypnosiscoach.com won't make your chest bigger or your waist smaller, but your friends'll think they are!

    Add it to your Ninja Skills before I change my mind and take it back from yours.

    Saturday, August 25, 2007

    The Hunt For Blog Fairy

    So far no word of Fran's flitterings. I've been monitoring some of her haunts, but there's been no identifiable trends. Maybe she went mortal. Maybe she got stepped on. No idea.

    I wrote a poem in case she happened to read this here, but before it was completed the pencil broke, stabbing into the middle of my right palm. I'll probably have to go to the doctor, but don't dare say how it happened.
      Well Doc, there's this blog fairy I've been searching for, and in a last ditch I was writing this poem, ya see, and the pencil just stabbed me in the hand when it broke.
    ...and people said I used to do drugs, making me see things. Who needs drugs when you've got friends with wings making you hunt them and ask people "Have you seen a little blue woman with wings and a keyboard under her arm?"

    Whatever. Maybe Santa's had better luck. I mean...if he's got the market on a red nosed reindeer, he's gotta have some kind of gadget to sniff for fairies. I'm sorry, I guess it's just the splinters in my nostrils from all the cheap fiberboard desks I've been under lately.

    If you see her, tell her to say something. Clap your hands or something...say you believe in fairies. This is really starting to wear on me.

    Caseworker Ninja Toolbox: 1800NODRUGS

    One of the biggest barriers people experiencing homelessness can't overcome is drug addiction. I've seen so many people over the years experiencing homelessness, as well as becoming more aware about drug abuse than ever in my life. It's horrifying to know a friend could fall prey to their life destroyed or taken in the pursuit their mind and body demands their next fix from.

    In Jacksonville, there's resources that are available to people to get off drugs. The problem in many cases though is that these businesses are very unfriendly towards those that are proactive and attempting to get help. Many people reaching out at the critical point and time frame for help are treated like numbers too often. The opportunity to immediately determine if they need to be inpatient treated usually isn't taken when it could be, and within hours an addict will be off on their own while one of their supporters of habit hands them a stem.

    1800nodrugs.com is a free service that addicts can call to get someone to do the legwork in getting them the help they need. They don't charge anything, listen, and network and connect people wanting to get off drugs to the places that do.

    When an addict makes the choice of getting clean and into drug rehab, they're not dealing with the same faculties as people not on drugs. They're still affected by the drugs which affect their judgement and choices. They don't have the ability to shop around on the phone, or mystery shop dozens of potential agencies.

    They need help, and they need it fast. They don't need a receptionist with an attitude, they don't need hourly paid administrative employees trying to get them away from their desk. They need to be screened quickly, matched to real services who can really help, and the financial needs must be met to cover the cost.

    That's the catch! Money. Drug rehab agencies must get money to operate. If they don't get it, they can't continue to clean up addicts. That's the glowing thing about 1800nodrugs.com...they get people without money hooked up to get help!

    Their site has an online form that does the same thing that every single agency I've seen does on intake: a financial application. No, it's not accessing your bank information, it's simply information a person gives so an agency knows up front where they need to apply for the funds to help a person.

    I could go on and on, but it won't help anyone if they don't quit reading this and make the call. If you need help, CALL THEM!
      1800nodrugs or 1 (800)663-7847
    If you're a case manager or other service provider to people experiencing homelessness, do NOT close this site page until you have written that number down.

    If you don't and your client dies in the gutter, nobody will know you could have let him call in your office...will they?

    This has been a sponsored post.

    Thinking About Real Estate In Miami

    Since the family has now been living independantly out of the homeless shelter system for over the year, I've been looking over different offers from real estate agents and agencies. Not just for property in Jacksonville, but also Miami real estate.

    The one thing I've always liked about Miami is it's diversified areas, from soft sand beaches as you face East to water marshlands on it's West. The music, the food, the arts and festivities are all world known, with more temperate and lower humidity than much of Florida's other cities.

    For all of the up and coming work at home businesses it boasts one of the world's best known International Airport, for when a blogger needs to get to Chicago or Los Angeles quick for a convention or client meet.

    Is real estate in Miami for everyone? In all honesty, it really isn't.

    It's for big dreamers and those wanting more out of life's tomorrows, today!
    save our homes

    Are You A Problogger?



    Would you believe...95%? No, well how about 80?

    Madonna Targetting Older Women To Tongue Now

    Annie Lennox does a song, featuring Madonna?

    So much for reality folks. Lennox's song 'Sing' does what many fans of Lennox's thought wouldn't happen...crush their world under the spike heal of a dominatrix who claimed love of her submissives so long.

    Click on the photo for Rolling Stone Argentina's spin. Figured it'd be suitable considering the company Annie's keeping.

    The Dance Of The Fall Of The Coconut

    Unknown to many readers, the coconut is the largest seed in the world at this time.

    Once a nut falls to the ground, it usually takes three years before it's able to take root where it landed and begin sprouting to create a new plant and tree.

    That's if someone doesn't come around with something hard and sharp, crack it open, and suck it's life juices out from it's body.

    Big Brother Forgives You...but just 10 times til you die

    Since October of 2006, the Social Security Administration has instituted the following policies:
    • You are limited to three replacement Social Security Cards in any given year.
    • You are limited to ten replacement Social Security Cards in your life.
    There are exceptions to the rule, just remember this is the government.

    Click the logo to learn more. Lack of knowledge of the law is no excuse for not abiding by it.
      Geez, that sounds so accusational when I hear it

    Friday, August 24, 2007

    WAHMs selling Foxjewelry.com items

    I just got word about a company called FoxJewelry.com offering people the chance to work at home selling jewelry. For those interested, you can pick up between $1000 to $2000 worth of bling that you can resell yourself. The cost to you in terms of wholesale price amounts to $497.00.

    I should mention that this site doesn't show any signs of multi level marketing. You buy the items, you resell the items.

    Friday's Blog Review: Closed Captioned For The Thinking Impaired

    It was bound to happen. Either I'll get banned from Fuelmyblog or it'll be the most hilarious fight between two content writers of the same community site.

    The game's already started in the comments. The rest of you guys keep to the sides. I started this, I'll finish it. Don't get dirty.

    This is an easy one...You're Fired

    It took two years. You finally got caught. Stealing a television and getting caught on closed circuit tv.
      Of all the nerve for them to be spying on you! oo!
    It really shocked me to begin with that they'd hire a former Mirage dancer who'd been charged with murder. Then again, there was the guy who's brains were blown out who had contact with that other employee that was fired as well...
      ...and then the police nabbed him with a Kilo of coke.
    There's something you and your friends never could learn. When you have to lie to cover up your actions, you do it so often you can't remember which lie was a lie to be retold later...or if it's truth you originally told.

    You were the hardest one. The rest of your peers with your belief system are carp in a barrel. You did real well making them think they were untouchable and nobody would know...
      ...but someone knew something you didn't know, didn't they?
    If you try to get on with any other agency, I will personally tell their CEO to get rid of you, my reason why, and that I'll be their worst nightmare if they don't put you out the door.

    I hear a restaurant in San Marco's recently opened up needing to use people.

    Shelter Dinner: One of the good nights

    This entry was one of many I made regularly, one of many over 1.5 years while residing at the I.M. Sulzbacher Center. Reason for many to hate loving me and others loving to hate me.


    Meal: Dinner, done by volunteer group on file
    3/22/06 6:37 pm
    chicken/rice/cheese dish
    cut brocolli
    romaine salad with mayo based dressing
    unsweetened tea
    milk

    All items appropriately portioned and temperature when served. Meal group volunteers extremely nice, kind, and you could see the genuine happiness at what they were doing.

    The entree is worth paying for. Follow up contact Mary has with nurse from UNF on group with thank you note.

    Part-time jobs offer great flexibility

    Whether you’re a student, a working mom or already have a steady job, part-time jobs may just be the best fit for both your life and financial needs. And there’s a good chance there’s a job out there that fits your interests.

    Honestly...buying a computer does not give a person the knowledge and ability to create a business. It's a tool. Working online takes persistence, patience, and committment beyond what many new PC owners realize.

    One site I recently picked up on is SnagAJob.com. They've got a large amount of jobs in a variety of industries, including restaurant jobs, retail jobs and office/admin. And when you perform a job search on SnagAJob.com, it’s quick, easy and you’ll be able to find a job right in your neighborhood.

    Remember, I'm always looking for better flexible solutions for your money. For now, I'm going to go see if I can borrow my friend's last dollar.

    Yes, I'd like $1,000,000.00 in small bills please

    Writeup sent up the chain in my company to be printed in the monthly newsletter as a subsection...possibly: NOTE: I like my company much, but the views here shouldn't be construed as endorsed whatsoever.

    A little over a decade ago, my wife and I began involvement with a handful of non profit organizations that assist families. Little did we know we'd become more closely involved not only as consumers, but advocates as well.

    Recently Mark; my supervisor in Jacksonville; asked me if I'd checked into [my company's] charitable giving program. I hadn't, and I'm glad he directed me to.

    After talking it over with him; and getting input from our Facility Manager, Dave; to get his perspective; I contacted Cory in Human Resources. Cory was able to give me information about both [HQ City's name]'s committee for local outreach and gift-giving, as well as [company name] Foundation that's provided literally tens of millions of dollars over the years.

    Cory asked me how much I was looking for. I told him a million. He chuckled. Granted, I didn't think it'd be that easy, but it was a good ice breaker reply that got more warmth into the conversation.

    I later went to [company name]'s website and pulled up the information for the Foundation, and the criteria involved when requesting funding for charitable purposes. Much of what's needed was best handled and prepared by the organization I advocate for, so I forwarded the information to their Vice President of Development. It's since been handed and being worked by the person who's involved with Grant Requests.

    This September, my entire family will be taking center stage at the prestigious Florida Theatre; located in Jacksonville, Florida; for the I.M. Sulzbacher's annual 'Transformations' Program and Gala. Food, entertainment, and some really wonderful stories of great accomplishments people experiencing homelessness have broken barriers past...and many who continue later to mentor, advocate, and put their effort in directly to improve our community in their endeavors.

    It also marks the last time Sherry Burns; CEO of the I.M. Sulzbacher Center for the Homeless; will be there, due to retiring shortly after. While it would have been really cool to have handed her a million dollar check from my new extended family at [company name], knowing the request will receive fair consideration for such a worthy cause out of so many to consider leaves me satisfied.

    When I become a CEO of my own created non profit, I'll know how to cinch the knot for asking for two million!

    Invade London, Eat, Sleep, Party, Do!

    London, origin and root of all men of America loving food and the home of real music! It's a great time and place to take the kids to for good eats and a taste of the music you loved growing up with, folks.

    I did some checking since I thought it'd be cool to see what's available to my friends on the other side of the pond, and now I'm in tears.

    The BBC 'Good Food Show' is going on at Olympia in London, from 16 -18 November 2007!
      Get in on the action by calling 0870 040 0391 for tickets.
    This years food folks include James Martin, Rick Stein, Giorgio Locatelli, John Torode, and a bunch more!

    For those of you preferring to leave the limelight to the chicken wing wavers, you can get your Irish on over at the exhibit stalls to go shopping. ANYTHING you want for your kitchen will be there...food, gadgets, books, and probably a bevy of kitchen aides you'd like to hire.
      Leave the missus over at the featured show, guys. Trust me on that.
    I looked over their offerings that are registered at the moment here, but be warned...the list is updated weekly, so this is only a smattering of what's going down these three days. Bring plastic!

    During the show's you'll have all the fun you'll want during the day, but nighttime's a bit different. Local music's there, you can check for yourself...but there's something special in store the end night of the food fun weekend in London, for at most £37.50.

    Chris De Burgh!!!!


    Chris is playing Sunday night on November 18th at the Hammersmith Apollo on Queen Caroline Street! The man who broke the American minds of teens playing Dungeons and Dragons with his haunting "Don't Pay The Ferryman" will be playing live! Tickets? Get them at Ticketmaster by calling 0870 606 3400!

    Lastly, you'll need a place to stay since this is a weekend gig we're looking at. For that, Cheaperthanhotels.com can set you up with last minute or year round rooms or suites usually cheaper than hostels, hotels, apartments that are serviced in cities such as London, Manchester, and Birmingham as well!

    This is only ONE of many weekends coming up in the next few months in London that any of my readers in Europe may be able to get away. If you're going to be in the area other times, check those links out...you'll be able to also find what's going on during your specific holiday times as well.

    Happy Holiday!

    JTA changing schedules, splitting routes

    The Jacksonville Transportation Authority (JTA) will begin changing routes on ten of it's existing bus lines as well as permitting busses to cross the Matthew's Bridge.

    Currently there's one line in particular; J1 University Park/Mandarin; that will be split in two from it's original interliner route.

    One problem being heard comes from workers living on the one end of this line who've taken jobs on the Southside, specifically call center workers. Some feel the new schedule and having to get another bus will create problems that ultimately will have them looking for work if they can't find a way on time.

    Most people using JTA busses don't have a vehicle. Costs of using private taxi service are prohibitive in many cases.

    I found a brother who chases his balls in public

    At least he claimed he was my brother. We have different mothers. People say things, but that doesn't mean always that their true.

    He told me; or rather his mother told me originally and he merely acknowledged me with a grunt once; that he had his own set of golf clubs, enjoyed the game with other deputies in his department, and liked doing tournaments for good causes.

    I still keep thinking of him chasing those wee little balls and beating the heck out of the green in a temper tantrum, sometimes.

    Ironically, when I was younger I never knew I had a brother. I did enjoy watching Bugs Bunny though. My favorite sketch to monologue was when the Abominable Snowman holds Bugs in his grips...
      I will love him and hug him and pet him and call him...
    ...now what was my brother's name again???

    Buying, Finding, Giving, Taking as much as possible

    Clothes and Homeless: The Myth: Unknown date

    My usual pilgrimage from work to home can take between 2 and 4 hours, depending on numerous things out of my control. Sometimes I buy things, find things, give things, or take things. Tonight I did all four before walking in the front door.

    Buying Things
    Easy one. My usual stop to get change for the bus means 'having' to get a Mountain Dew Litre. Seeing as I kept to not eating much today, I splurged and picked up King Size Mounds Bar. Kept it in my lunchbag with the drink to keep it cold, figured I'd eat it later while waiting for a bus downtown.


    When I got downtown the terminal was swamped, so I did what I've done lately and chose to get off at a location where the bus I catch next would get before the terminal. Translation: I don't have to stand for 30 minutes until the first bus stop.

    Finding and Giving Things
    I saw a woman wearing a jacket and old leather handbag at the bus stop when I got there. Stood in the shade where I normally do, and was about to have a smoke when I remembered the candy bar. I could tell from the woman's hands and feet exposed in open sandles that she'd been weathering the elements for months, while she had only two yellowed teeth she smiled with when I handed her half of my candybar pack, while I asked her if it was alright to sit on the bench.

    Jay...that's what I'll call her here...has been living outside for five years. Thought it was strange, since I know many of the locals by sight at least and couldn't recall her in particular. Turns out she's from Jax Beach, and said she was heading back there. With the weather looking as it was, I made small talk and opened up about having been homeless to find out if she knew the system of places in town.

    While answering probing questions, she interacted fine. Sad thing is she wasn't interested or prepared to head to get in line for dinner at Sulzbacher's, just four blocks away. When I asked her what bus she was catching, she said she was walking to the beach.

    During our talk, I related how when I first came to Jacksonville in 1989, I felt safer camping outside than staying in the shelters sometimes...trying to get her to elaborate on her reasons for being unsheltered so long. I continued in talking about floor space as an option at Sulzbacher's sometimes, which she hadn't heard of before. Possible it was feigned, possible she honestly didn't recall.

    Jay's like many chronic homeless, reacting to schedules, stimuli, and the most basic instincts of survival. Food for survival, a place to bed down out of sight of others, and in many cases nothing more. While many opponents of homeless people claim abundant locations for clothing, many closets have 90 day waits between visits.

    Not having a place that's within their area; or not knowing what's there for their use due to disassociating from contact with other homeless or people in general; they are forced to wear the same clothing constantly for weeks at a time.

    That was my third thing for the day, taking what she said to heart.

    Feel free to eMail or visit my project Homeless In Jax.

    Daydreaming: Make your dreams real

    What if tomorrow you could get away from it all with the ones you cherish most, to a place you could have it all and be free of the crowds to relax each night?

    Disney's a great place to be, along with it's sister attractions nearby within close range. The downside is nearby options for lodging, with not knowing who's in the next room doing what. But what if you could bypass that with a vacation home Orlando style?

    You'd be able to relax in a pool without the distraction of partiers. You'd be able to cook out on your own patio. You'd be able to do what you want on your vacation, and isn't that what getting away's all about?

    Think different. No imitations. Be your own boss.

    Big man with a big gun bein' big

    So long lost, it doesn't have the original date.

    I felt special as a cop ghosted me while I stuck to my PDA list @ WD this morning. It took me 5 minutes to choose the salt & pepper...& I don't hate myself for loving every slow moment of it.

    Today is a day to enjoy while I'm depressed. First thing I did this morning was to move all tasks to Monday, that way I can stick to the basics like showering, shaving, and even stopping to take a bowel movement...the last being no exaggeration whatsoever.

    You have no idea the peace lost of defecating in a shelter with over a hundred children on the other side of the throne room.

    Medical Care For Jacksonville's Working Class Not Able To Afford Insurance

    Honestly, there's more good things going on in Jacksonville that never come to the light of day. I picked up this information from today's issue of the Florida Times-Union physical print.

    Volunteers In Medicine provides a clinic using volunteer doctors and staff, similar to what's offered at the I.M. Sulzbacher Medical Clinic. While the Sulzbacher has provided medical clinic and resource networking for both homeless and anyone else they could help, Volunteers In Medicine is geared for providing workers professional clinic care they'd otherwise never be able to receive.

    Many people believe the stereotype that medical care is afforded all Florida residents. It's not. While children and their parents are covered under Florida's Medicaid program; when within income guidelines; those without children aren't. Many of them have had to resort to waiting three months to receive their 'Shands Card' through Jacksonville's local 'educational hospital'.
      People who've been put out of their home, with open weeping wounds, not able to get at least fresh dressings. Yes, I've seen it many times over personally.
    At the moment I don't have online information or a link to a site, if they have one. Their located at 41 East Duval Street in Jacksonville, Florida. Hours are Tuesday through Friday: 9:00 am to 5:00 pm, and Saturday: 9:00 am to 1:00 pm. For more information contact them at (904)399-2766.

    If you've got a job and don't have medical coverage, give them a call.

    If you do have coverage, please note this information for someone you may find needs it.

    Thursday, August 23, 2007

    Catching rays in your house

    Thanks to a Virginia sun room from Creative Energy you can relax and enjoy the sun even when it's 30 below outside.

    I've seen what they can do and the rooms they've built are nothing short of amazing. The views are great, they add great value to a home, and these Virginia sun room are energy efficient too.

    Not only does Creative Energy offer great sun rooms, but they're also the leading
    vinyl siding company in Central Virginia, and they are experts at replacement window installation. Check them out today and you'll see why I go to them for all my home exterior needs.

    More Homeless Footware Tracked

    I was able speak with one on one with a person experiencing homelessness this last Monday. He doesn't like using services downtown due to not feeling safe around many other chronic homeless.

    He's couch surfing in one of the suburb areas and was heading 'home' after work. He's staying with a family but feels imposing and wants to get a place of his own, but has problems because he's giving half of his paycheck to them.

    While it's nice to help people, helping oneself to increased income at their ultimate expense isn't nice. More often I hear of people 'helping' someone, then when a person gets an income they feel obligated to provide realistically more than their fare share of whatever cost they're incurring or would be charged as a boarder.

    Thoughts, By JohnC

    7/11/07 9:07 am
    @ work on pda

    Sometimes doing what's right makes you unpopular with groups of others.

    I believe in freedom & respect for all, both on & offline...until it's time to direct someone to a corner.

    Remember I'm Doing A Walk For Those That Can't Remember

    Alzheimer’s Disease (AD) grips the lives of many families throughout America, from those feeling it's effects to their family, friends, and neighbors. It's most known and comes to light when local media alerts communities of missing people, however it's what children deal with daily when advocating and making decisions for their parents who have AD.

    Nobody really knows what causes AD, but it's symptoms revolve around parts of the brain that control thought, memory, and language. The most prevalant and well known symptom is Dementia, a progressive loss of cognitive function.
      Being a geek like me, it's honestly one of the scariest things possible when so much of what I do relies massively on this.

    In many cities in upcoming months thousands of people will converge to Memory Walk and make a difference, and the Alzheimer's Association is taking great strides for people to help through donating, walking as an individual or as a team, and even becoming a Team Captain.Will I stop Alzheimer's Disease dead in it's tracks? Not alone. But I can ask people to check my page there, donate through their secured site, get people to walk with me, and get the word out of the walk itself.
      Now read close your eyes and think if you can remember what I just wrote. If you can, think of those that can't who've got AD
    Check out my page there. If you can't donate, consider mentioning this in your blog. For the moment my goal is a modest $200.00. If I reach that goal, it's going to be increased.
      And remember, if you link to my Walk Page as well as this entry, you'll be getting link backs!
    This is important to me, because I've met a handful of people who are homeless and are in early stages of AD.
      What if it was someone you loved
    Click it. I'm sitting right there beside you.

    Rubik's Cube: How To Identify Geeks To Keep

    Decades ago while a young sophomore, there was a book that was put out that honestly taught a person how to solve a Rubik's Cube in a minute. It was this knowledge that caused me to do a prior entry when picking up on another blogger.

    If CEOs are expecting people to handle their duties as Directors or Case Managers for homeless services provided to their agencies clients, they need to put them to a simple test if they can follow instructions.

    Give them the book and a Rubik's Cube. Give them one week. They get the job if they can do the puzzle in five minutes without looking in the book. They can't, they're gone.

    Oh, and five minutes is liberal. There's 42 people on record that have solved it WITHOUT site using this specially designed Cube!
      ...and now you know why some people love to hate me, and others hate to love me.

    What Service Providers Could Learn From Me

    6/12/07 6:05 pm
    If you can provide a service @ the drop of a hat with little or no cost that causes immediate interaction on the part of a client @ first contact, the sale is closed.

    A man taught me a few things two decades ago. How to play chess, how to sell, and how to walk away from someone trying to sell me to sell by playing chess.

    "The Five 'P's of Salesmanship" are Promotion, Personalisation, Placement, Pitch, and Packaging, in that order...balls to the wall on each step, concentrating on it and not looking back to the prior step in the path of closing.

    More Home Decorating Ideas We're Having

    A few weeks back me and my wife were going over some sites, just daydreaming of what we'd like added to our home one day we make for ourselves.
      It'll happen, be patient, feel the love.
    Her and I are big kitchen nook buffs, having a breakfast bar and bar stools on one side while being able to cook and serve on the other.

    With four kids, it's a lot easier playing 'Diner' than dealing with a table in the morning...prep and placement, serving, eating, and cleanup...all having to walk...ERRR! hate the idea just thinking about it!

    What's your idea of a comfortable setup for eating with the family, besides having the standard dining room for evening and weekend meals, folks?

    Ironic Viral Street Marketing

    6/12/07 5:51 pm
    Saw a man w 2 other homeless, passing time @ Newnan bus garage.

    His white t-shirt's caption in yellow...'Happy Homecoming'.

    Reflections on a city bus

    5/7/07 6:08 am
    One of the hardest things sometimes to face while on the way to work are memories of the near past.

    It hurts to think I bought into being treated badly as necessary for the sake of my family.

    What and how I do now weren't possible just short years ago. Location & lack of resources or funds are no crime...yet to many I was a vagrant and treated like a criminal. Somehow I need to maintain the perspective that outbursts out of ignorance or anger by others are more giving credit to the person's beliefs that gives them, than anything to do about me personally.

    Wednesday, August 22, 2007

    Tools For New Site Owners

    More and more bloggers I know are making the dip into getting their own served sites. That's commendable, but when they see many available scripts they can implement they get lost. One problem is in forums.

    An online forum takes much effort to build, moderate, and can be really distracting from the original blog when it gets off topic. Another problem is whatever goes on in the forum, DOESN'T stay in the forum. Just like your blog, a forum you create WILL be spider searched by Yahoo and other engines.
      Translation: You get a snert creating an image of stupidity, it could be your brand if not caught in time for it to be cached for posterity.
    One option I've stressed to many people new to hosting their own full service site is to try free chat rooms. Chat can't be tracked by search engines, at least from any install or platform I've seen...they're not textual like...like this entry here!

    The benefit of having a chat room on your site is the ability to redirect welcomed guests who want to hang out and gab with other regulars. 'Knee jerking' can be seen as 'friendly' in a forum thread amongst members, but it takes the subject off track too much.

    Wanna get it back on the right path, give 'em a place to go let off steam, smile, or do whatever unmentionables people do in cyber...space.

    Journey Lite: It's Surgery For Fat People, Without The Cost

    I picked up a site offering lap-band surgery that PC users will get a laugh out of at first. Years ago we used to call people doing this kind of medicine bariatric surgeons, but now their known as "Journey Lite Surgeons".
      You're food will not be fully accessible to your body, just like software you don't pay for!
    They've got locations on both coasts and in Texas, so it's a good option to think about. Seems no matter what I've been doing, I can't seem to lose this overhang of mine myself.

    Talk to your doctor, etc, etc. But give the site a look if you've got weight problems you've been fighting, like me. Knowledge is power.

    Bet the nurses are cute there too!

    This has been a sponsored post.

    It's FAIRY SEASON!

    For those of you following; or rather not able to be following; saga of "Where In What Blog Is Fran At?", I got word back from MyBlogLog; specifically from Ian; that there's nothing wrong in the system.
      No, he's not gonna tell me anything like "She split man...did too much dust or something...", since that would violate her privacy.
    Don't know what's going on, but I've got sensors out.

    Tuesday, August 21, 2007

    I'm No Fairy, Folks!

    Fran; the Blog Fairy; of MyBlogLog; has disappeared.

    No, I'm not her.

    ...and NO, I DO NOT HAVE WINGS!

    I just wanted to let people know not to ask me to sprinkle dust on them.

    I can't tell you what's going on, because it's TOP SECRET.

    ...but it is kinda cool, no? lol

    Please sign the comment petition below and ask for the safe return of The Blog Fairy to MyBlogLog. Help make wishes and dreams come true again.

    Yes, I'm Here, No, I'm Not.

    Joli over at Microsoft has got the answer for people. The recent problems involving my PC have caused me to resort to using a restore point. Tis not answering my problem.

    There's a combination of nasty malware, double virus scanner programs, and a persistant Firefox that keeps destroying anything of my bookmarks.

    I'm in the process of saving what I can before going the length of total FDISK. The PC's been deathbooting at random times, during random usage, both browsers...and it goes on and on and on.
      ...and just when I had all my bookmarks nicely organized.
    OOGA BOOOOGA BBBOOOOOOOGGGGAAAA!

    Note to self: Invest in laptop, force children to learn to slick the box after I get said laptop, so as NEVER to have to look at a HP...AGAIN!

    Muhahahahahah!

    Product Review: Clay Nelson: Life Coaching CDs worth hearing out

    Is Clay Nelson just another life coach doing the blog sell?

    Not in my opinion. Trust is one problem when surfing through 'life coaches' online. Like most of my readers I've been overdone by too many 'life couches' trying to sell me their online published book out of their blog.

    Clay's site is professionally done and has been operational for three years now. Considering the 'boom' in what you'll find in blogging networks, you figure it out. He's got a great track record in workshop leadership, motivational speaking, and does a radio broadcast out in California.
      Translation: He's Established, folks. New readers check those links, regulars...you know what I'm about.
    The 3 CD disk series I found on his site's been also noted since last year on PR Web and other sources, taking what he's got and putting it at a person's access when they can concentrate.
      Sorry, but with four kids and not knowing this stuff I honestly don't have the time to take from work for workshops during the day.
    For the time being; until I become Mayor of Jacksonville; I have the luxury of sharing eight of my daily hours with people needing me to help them through the day. During my night, I'll be able to spend time here online with my friends and pals while letting Clay teach me things I may have known...but didn't know were that important.
      Remember, I'm a geek. What I do here is what I can do on a bad day. I've walked people through software installs while asleep, but that's another story for another night
    Do I honestly think I'll get anything out of these CDs or not? Definately 'yes'. I'm actually waiting for mine to hit my box, so I can start going through the first one.
      And to show I put my money where my mouth is, I'll even do an honest review of CD1. Either it rocks, or it sucks. Trust me, Santa's got his eye on me...ain't no way I'm misbehavin'!
    Go check out his site and see for yourself...WoW can wait a few minutes while your in your underwear with me.

    ...and you thought that webcam was disabled. :)